Birth to 3 years: Communication and Language

When I am a baby:

  • I turn towards familiar sounds. I am startled by loud noises. I can accurately locate the source of a familiar person’s voice, like my mum’s or my dad’s
  • I like to gaze at faces. I copy facial expressions and movements. If you stick out your tongue, I’ll stick out mine. I make eye contact for longer periods as I get older
  • I watch people’s faces as they talk
  • I like to copy what you do and take ‘turns’ in joining in with conversations by babbling

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  • I try to copy the lip movements that you make
  • I enjoy singing, music and toys that make sounds
  • I can recognise your voice and it makes me feel calm when I hear it
  • I can listen and respond to a simple instruction
  • I make sounds to get your attention. I do this in different ways such as crying when I’m hungry or unhappy and making gurgling sounds, laughing, cooing or babbling
  • I like to babble. I use sounds like ‘baba and ‘mamama’
  • I use gestures like waving and pointing to communicate
  • When I want something, I reach or point while making sounds
  • I like to copy your gestures and words
  • I babble all the time and use single words when I am playing
  • When I am ‘talking’ I change my intonation, pitch and volume
  • Wait for me to communicate with a sound, a look or with words. This helps me to lead the conversation

When I am a bit older:

  • I can understand single words such as ‘cup’, ‘milk’, ‘daddy’ when they are used in meaningful situations
  • I can understand frequently used words such as ‘all gone’, ‘no’ and ‘bye-bye’
  • I can understand simple instructions like: “Give to nanny” or “Stop”
  • I can recognise and point to objects when you ask me about them
  • I like to focus on an activity that I have chosen. I can find it hard it when you move me away from something I find fun
  • I like to listen to you when you talk, but I can find it hard to pay attention when I see something interesting
  • I can feel really frustrated when I can’t make myself understood
  • I am learning to use words and actions to let you know how I am feeling
  • I am learning to have conversations but I often jump from topic to topic
  • I like to join in with pretend play like ‘putting the baby to sleep’
  • I can use the speech sounds p,b,m
  • I can pronounce: l/r/w/y f/th s/sh/ch/dz/j
  • I can pronounce words that have more than one syllable such as ‘banana’ and ‘computer’
  • I might pronounce some words incorrectly. It helps me if you reply to what I say using the right words and sounds. I learn from your positive model, without losing confidence to speak
  • I like to to listen to simple stories. I can understand what is happening, with the help of the pictures
  • I can identify familiar objects when you describe them. I can point to the big boat in a book we’re sharing. I can get an apple when you ask me to
  • I can understand longer sentences. I can “Make teddy jump.” When you say that as we’re playing. When you say: “Find your coat.” I can do that
  • I can understand simple questions about ‘who’, ‘what’ and ‘where’ (but generally not ‘why’)