Learning to use a spoon and fork

Most children begin exploring a spoon between 9 and 12 months of age. To help your child:

  • let them hold their own spoon during mealtimes
  • start with foods that stick to the spoon such as yoghurt, mashed potato or thick purees
  • use bowls with raised sides to make scooping easier
  • guide their hand if needed and gradually reduce your help
  • praise all attempts, even if they are messy.

Once your child is confident using a spoon:

  • introduce a child-sized fork
  • start by placing food on the fork for them
  • progress to easy-to-stab foods such as soft fruit or cooked vegetables
  • encourage your child to hold the fork in one hand while beginning to use a spoon or knife in the other