Fastenings

Helping with buttons

Start by practising with large buttons on a doll, toy or someone else's jumper.

Use the backward chaining technique — break the task into steps, and let your child complete the final step while you do the rest. As they gain confidence, gradually increase the number of steps they complete until they can do the whole task.

Once large buttons are mastered, move on to smaller ones. You can make buttoning easier by sewing buttons on with thick thread and leaving a small gap between the button and the fabric. Button holes should be slightly larger than the button to help with grip.

Create fun ways to practise, like a “button box” made from a shoe box with slots for posting buttons or coins, or a “button board” with fabric and large buttons. Adding pictures under the buttons can make the activity more engaging, when a button is undone, a picture is revealed.

Threading games and cards also help develop the fine motor skills needed for buttoning. When teaching shirt buttons, start from the bottom and work upwards to help match buttons with the correct holes. Encourage your child to check their progress in a mirror.

If top buttons are too tricky, consider replacing them with Velcro or poppers. You can sew the button on permanently for appearance while using easier fastenings underneath.

Supporting zip skills

Show your child how to use a zip by demonstrating how to pull the tab up and down. Let them assist you during the process to build confidence.

You can make zips easier to grip by attaching a ribbon, zip ring or large paperclip to the tab. Start with large, heavy-duty zips that slide more easily. Practise with fun activities like unzipping a purse or pocket to reveal a surprise.

If zips are too difficult, Velcro tabs can be a good alternative to encourage independence. Another helpful strategy is to have your child connect the zip while the garment is on their lap, then step into it. This gives them a better view of the whole item and helps with coordination.